salam every one, i'm drop a few minute here just to sharing something, a short one. about backbiting.
Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Prophet said, “Do you know what
backbiting is?” They said, “Allah and His Messenger know best.” He then
said, “It is to say something about your brother that he would dislike.”
Someone asked him, “But what if what I
say is true?” The Messenger of Allah said, “If what you say about him is
true, you are backbiting him, but if it is not true then you have
slandered him.” . (Muslim) http://purematrimony.com/
p/s: I know that sometime we're not to realize what we're talking about or maybe not really know we're do it.i sharing for deep reminder to me itself, and u. may Allah grant us protection to keep away from this.